Comments on: A Glittery Reappearance

By: J

Thu, 27 Nov 2008 14:00:36 +0000

Bah! I feel so out of touch and I have really only been away for a few days. I am proud of you being done. It takes a lot to erase those messages especially the ones full of flattery.

By: mollyelizabeth

mollyelizabeth — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 14:15:47 +0000

Glitter never really goes away completely …

By: Another Social Scientist

Another Social Scientist — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 06:46:24 +0000

See, now, the problem with Glitter is that when you think you’ve washed it all off you suddenly find a fleck in your hair or stuck to your shirt. So, so hard to get rid of.

By: eoyore

eoyore — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 04:05:43 +0000

I know, it is so hard. You are doing great tho ;)

The weirdest things happen. I took a job once to be closer to a boyfriend. Not long after…he literally took off to live with his brother in California. Yup, I stopped by his house and he was GONE….no goodbye…no nuttin. After 2 years. I mean, there were problems sure..like his drinking. But to leave like THAT? So I wallowed and sobbed and cried. I wanted to die. I continued going to the job like a zombie. There was a supervisor there who kept asking me out…I kept declining…I have now been married to him for 23 years :D

I met my husband at my lowest point. I even LOOKED like crap. I suppose there was no desperation to impress about me…and that’s what intrigued him. Wow, I could have spared a lot of a pain over the years if I knew not washing my hair and going without makeup, and being rude was what would get the guy :/

See, either Realtor gets his head straight and he’ll be very lucky he did, or while he’s trying to… you’ll meet someone great…and Realtor will be very unlucky indeed.

By: molly

molly — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 16:56:04 +0000

Thanks Trin – we would love you for some Whitesnake and beer drinking, if you’re in the mood to be sloppy and don’t judge my lack of tone :)

I needed to do the erasing because otherwise I am too easily tempting to just “try and text to see if he’ll respond.” I have no willpower so I need to take it away as an option. Most of my exes are gone from my phone. The Kid is still not programmed into my phone either; course, I have his number memorized but it’s the principle.

By: trinity2

trinity2 — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 16:25:01 +0000

Hey, I want in on that whitesnake and beer drinking thing!
Glitter will be gone in no time and he will realize what he lost. Good for you erasing everything! You go, girl!

By: eoyore

eoyore — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 16:24:37 +0000

29?! he better get his stuff together soon.

I am very interested to see what he does when he gets totally shut off.

By: mollyelizabeth

mollyelizabeth — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 13:25:01 +0000

She’s one of his unstable/dumb-hot chicks, and I believe that he is her world but he always told me that wanted differently for his world. But again, words/actions= two different things.

He’s four years older than me – 29yo.

By: mollyelizabeth

mollyelizabeth — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 13:21:49 +0000

Shant _ I would love that. And maybe some Journey, too.

Fishy – they still aren’t “together” but there’s def something there. I can’t believe he didn’t didn’t have anything to say to me – anything – and when I wrote “No comment?” he said, “No comment yet. Still trying to figure out what to say.” Oh, ok, Buddy. Many MANY issues I can’t handle – but not the other girl thing.

Eoyore – his number is gone from my phone; it will be interesting to see if he initiates any contact.

By: eoyore

eoyore — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 13:19:10 +0000

I think he and this “glitter shitter” person have become a habit to each other. She probably sees other people too. They are using each other as a crutch to help them to keep from growing up.

Well he’s stupid…..he may cause himself to lose the best thing that could have happened to him.

May I ask how old he is?

By: eoyore

eoyore — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 12:41:58 +0000

Aw crap! that dink!! :(

Don’t answer his texting. Shut him off…see what he does. Become unavailable.

I’d like to smack his head with an iron frying pan.

By: Another Social Scientist

Another Social Scientist — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 06:57:18 +0000

Oh MollyE that is awful. Just imagine if you were the girlfriend and it was Glitter’s back he was rubbing. This boy just isn’t worth it. I’m with shanti on the beer and whitesnake. Hugs.